learning her needsI have posted several of our adventures with my awesome hotwife but now I would like to write a little about how we came to find out what we were actually joined together with. This is of course our sexual bonding which takes a very special emotional bond to enjoy this lifestyle. We had discussed how much honesty and open communications would be necessary to continue with each other. We were then and are now very much in love and have been together now for over 20 years.This learning event took place one weekend as we were enjoying a short holiday in the great city of New Orleans. On the drive we talked about her past and she would tell me about her past sexual adventures. I kept an erection the entire time as she was quite promiscuous since she was about 15 years old. One old boyfriend kept popping up and she said he was her favorite of all sexually. When I finally asked why he was so much her favorite. She went on to explain.He was very dominant with her and also bordered on too rough. He would make her show off in public wearing revealing clothes and flashing herself to his friends. When in private he eventually started being very rough. He enjoyed spanking her. He would wrap his hand around her throat, which she said was an extreme turn on and he would tie her hands above her head and slap her tits and even her face. One night at a party he took her to a bedroom and left the door open about halfway and combined all this as well as letting his friends watch through the door.When she was relating this to me she had shoved her hand under her short skirt without panties and was fingering herself and had a hand on her nipple twisting her own nipple so hard I thought she would be drawing the blood. She finally came soaking the car seat with a huge mess. I was so hard it was painful and I couldn’t wait to stop driving to fuck her. We, by this time were on the outskirts of town next to a truckstop with a hotel and bar close by. She said we should get a couple of drinks and a room to finish the night. We stopped at the motel and got a room. It was on the ground floor in the courtyard with a view of the small swimming pool and the rooms surrounding the courtyard. We walked to the bar which was not crowded but a few of what I guessed were the men that either drove the trucks or worked nearby. Nothing special but clean and quiet with a jukebox that was not too loud for conversation. We ordered drinks and sat at a high top and I noticed that she was not keeping her skirt bahis firmaları pulled down and had not buttoned her blouse back after playing with her nipples in the car. We sat there and she was flashing and smiling at all who noticed. She asked me if this was turning me on. I told her to reach in my lap and find out for herself. I expected her to just touch and check but she actually grabbed it and massaged it for a good minute which seemed to last forever as the men around us watched. I couldn’t take any more and told her it was time to go to the room. We reached our room and she stood at the huge window and looked out and said she wished she had a bathing suit so we could get in the pool. I stood behind her and as we looked out I pulled her to me from behind and started to pull her blouse open. The small light on the table by the window I noticed had us fairly exposed so I went to pull the curtains closed but she stopped and said “leave them like this, I want to watch the men while you touch me”. She then reminded me of how turned on she would get when her boyfriend would let his friends watch as he did the things to her she loved so much. I asked her if that would excite her again. When she said yes I asked her if she still wanted me to do the same things he did. She said not all the time but sometimes she actually craved it.She had me so worked up by teasing me all night. I could hardly say no even though I didn’t like being as rough as she had described the things he did. She was in total control. I looked back at the wide open window and saw that she had an audience of one. He was sitting in a lounger by the pool and had turned his seat to directly peer into the window. I could see her reflection in the window and she was looking directly at him while I was slowly removing her clothes. I could barely keep from climaxing as I was rubbing my cock between her ass cheeks. I had her naked now and she turned around and unbuttoned my shirt and unbuckled my pants then went down on her knees and pulled my pants with them. She told me to get out of my shoes then pulled my pants off completely Now we were both totally exposed. She stood and pulled the belt out of my pants and told me to tie her hands behind her with it. When that was done she told me” treat me like I need to be treated. I’m your whore tonight.” I was stunned but completely turned on by hers and my action. I had shared her before but this was off the charts by just completely exposing her in such a public place. At kaçak iddaa this point I grabbed her by the hair and took her to the other side of the bed so she could keep eye contact with the voyeur who had actually moved his seat as close as he could without leaving the pool area. He was less than 15 feet away. By this time also there were a couple of men watching from across the pool. I pushed her face down on the bed and started to spank her and pull her hair so she had to turn her head toward the window. She tried to turn her head away once and I lightly slapped her face. She said “I didn’t even feel that one. You had better do better.” As badly as I wanted to not slap her harder I did it again with a little more force. Her pussy almost started squirting and was running down the inside of her thighs. I knew then I wasn’t hurting her but just driving her over the edge. I started slapping her ass cheeks hard. Hard enough that it was stinging my hand. I would wrap my hand around her throat and slap her tits and face and ass alternating between them. I had forgotten at this point about the watchers but when I noticed some movement at the window I saw that he had approached the window and was standing within a few inches and rubbing his crotch which looked very hard from the way he was grabbing it. I told her to look up and she saw him and just stared with a glazed look on her face. She told me “open the door.”I said that would not be a great idea. She then in a more demanding voice, “ open the fucking door and let him in.” Like I said before she had complete control by this time and I was just trying to understand who I had married and was thrilled that I was the lucky one to get her all the time.I opened the door and he never hesitated to come right in. I closed the door and he walked to her taking his shirt off. He was an average looking guy and clean cut with neat hair and dress and I looked and he had a wedding ring on. He was about 4inches taller than me which would make him about 6’3”. I thought it could have been much worse. She said after he had his shirt off and thrown on the chair by the desk,”Bring your belt over here and think of a way to use it.” He took off shoes and socks and when he pulled his belt he dropped his pants and boxers to reveal an average but very hard cock. It was standing almost straight up and throbbing with his heart beat. He walked over to her laying there looking up at him and took the belt and slapped her ass with it a couple of times. He told her kaçak bahis to sit up and look at the dicks she was teasing. She just obeyed him without any hesitation and I was in shock but very much enjoying them and this nasty ritual before the fuck. He grabbed her by the throat and slapped her face on both sides. I almost jumped in to stop it but she groaned and whimpered “oh fuck yeah”. I thought I would wait and just keep close to make it wasn’t more than she could safely stand. Too much v******e is just not a turn on for me and I couldn’t let this go too far. He then took the belt and wrapped it around her throat and bent her back on the bed with her face down. Her face was at the corner and I walked over and put my cock in her face which she immediately opened her mouth for. I grabbed her head and shoved it on me all the way to the back of her throat. I almost came instantly but was able to hold on. I felt her moving and looked up from her face to see that he had shoved himself in her pussy just like I had shoved in her throat. We were both fucking her now and the rythem was making me get ready to cum so I pulled out. I told him no cumming in her. He nodded in agreement and kept on stroking in and out. We then took the belts off her hands and neck so we could lay her on her back and spread her legs. At this point we were all ready to blow. She had had several small orgasms but I knew she must have at least one major one coming. He then crawled to her and started laying on top of her and kissing her nippled and throat and then her mouth. The passion was unbelievable and I was leaking just standing there watching. She told him to let her know just before he cums. He replied he would. He was slamming her for a few minutes when he said I’m ready to blow!! At this point she wrapped her arms around his back and her legs around both his legs and shouted for him to fill her up. “Fill me up baby, give me your cum!!”. I didn’t have time to intervene as he just roared and started pumping into her. As much as I wanted it to be safe I almost started cumming as I watched it start running out of her around his dick. As soon as he finished and got up on his knees I pushed him away and shoved my dick as hard as I could in her sloppy, swollen, hot mess of a cunt.I layed there a minute or so then thought about our visitor. I looked up and he was finished dressing and headed for the door. He turned and said thanks, that was incredible. She said good night as he closed the door. We did not even know his name or where he was from. I thought, perfect!This was the last I joined in with the rough sex as I had some guilt feelings about treating her this way but I know she never stopped craving the intensity of it all.